What Are You Waiting For? A Call to Action for Women
In a world filled with endless opportunities and challenges, it’s easy for women to find themselves at a crossroads, wondering when the right time is to make significant changes in their lives. This hesitation, this waiting, is what we need to address. In today’s discussion, we’ll explore the reasons why many women find themselves in a state of pause, and more importantly, how to break free from it.
What Are You Waiting For?
The question, “What are you waiting for?” is directed at you. Yes, you. It’s time to reflect on the decisions you’ve been putting off—whether it’s starting a business, leaving a toxic environment, or simply choosing to prioritize yourself. Many women delay making important decisions, but it’s crucial to recognize that waiting can cost you your peace, happiness, and fulfilment.
The Chains of Fear and Self-Doubt
One of the biggest obstacles that keep women from moving forward is fear and self-doubt. These feelings often stem from upbringing and societal expectations, leading to a lack of self-confidence. Women are frequently told that their worth is determined by external factors, such as relationships or societal approval. This ingrained fear can prevent us from fully pursuing our goals, making us hesitate and hold back.
But what if you didn’t have to wait for perfection or approval? What if you could take that leap of faith right now?
The Importance of Support
Another significant barrier is the lack of support. This can manifest as an absence of role models, financial backing, or even emotional support from family and friends. For example, a woman in a bad marriage might stay because she doesn’t know where she would go if she left. The fear of being alone, unsupported, or judged can be paralyzing.
However, it’s essential to remember that there is always a way out. Support can come from unexpected places, and sometimes, the first step is simply believing that you deserve better.
The Trap of Waiting for Validation
Many women find themselves waiting for validation—whether from society, family, or friends—before making a move. The fear of judgment or not meeting societal expectations can be crippling. But consider this: time is ticking, and the longer you wait, the more you allow yourself to remain shackled by these fears.
Don’t let the fear of judgment hold you back from taking the bold steps you need to take. The world will adjust to your success, not the other way around.
The Myth of Perfection
We often convince ourselves that everything needs to be perfect before we can move forward. This mindset can be particularly detrimental, as it causes us to delay action indefinitely. But perfection is an illusion. If you wait for everything to fall into place, you may be waiting forever.
Take it from my own experience—years ago, I delayed starting my podcast and other ventures because I was waiting for the “right” time, the “perfect” conditions. I believed that I needed to be married first, as I was conditioned to think that marriage completes a woman. But that was just a waste of time. Don’t make the same mistake. Start now, and go for it with full steam.
Break Free from Mental Shackles
Often, the biggest battle we face is in our minds. The enemy uses societal values and systems to limit us, but we must remember that we are not condemned. The Bible says, “There is therefore now no condemnation to them who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). You are not condemned, so why condemn yourself?
God has a unique purpose for each of us. What are you waiting for to fulfil that purpose? Don’t let society, fear, or even your responsibilities as a mother hold you back. Your life is yours to live, and you should live it fully.
Practical Steps to Stop Waiting
So, how can you stop waiting and start living the life you were meant to live? Here are some actionable steps:
- Set Clear Goals: Define what you want to achieve, and don’t limit yourself. Make your goals SMART—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
- Create a Vision Board: Visualize where you want to be in two, five, or ten years. This will keep you motivated and focused on your long-term goals.
- Daily Devotion: Establish a daily routine of reading the Bible and praying. This connection with God will help you stay grounded and focused.
- Join a Supportive Community: Surround yourself with like-minded women who are also striving to live fulfilled lives. Communities like Chapters with Kayla can provide the encouragement and support you need.
- Continuous Learning: Never stop improving yourself, whether it’s through education, acquiring new skills, or personal development.
Conclusion: Live Ahead of Your Generation
Finally, I want to leave you with this thought: live ahead of your generation. If society’s expectations don’t align with God’s purpose for you, then go ahead of them. Live life on your terms, according to what God says, not what society dictates.
Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Your future is bright—don’t let anyone or anything dim your light.
So, what are you waiting for? The time to act is now.
Blessings,
Minister Kayla.